Friday, August 22, 2014

Moving From America to Australia, Again

2014 has been full of planning and purging, baseball playoffs and play dates. New friendships will be turning into old ones... and as we move once again, new friends, and much- loved old friends, lurk in the distance.

Goodbyes, reflections, and regrets fill the air, even though this move to Sydney is all good, it feels almost neglectful to have lived in the San Francisco area almost 2.5 years, and have seen so little.

And I have lame excuses--  the endless hamster wheel of school, activities, sport teams, and laundry... and did I mention the laundry?  But at the end of the day, we did Cali wrong, like really, really wrong, and that's the unfortunate truth.

We put serious efforts into doing whatever we could during our 4.5 years in Sydney, because we knew our time there was finite.  And this move to San Francisco was supposed to permanent, and we were supposed to have plenty of time to "do it all"… but now-- it's done.  San Francisco is done.  We are gone, and it is over.

And we never made it to Lake Tahoe, or Sonoma, or Napa (or anywhere else we could have drank ourself silly on a day tour). We ignored opportunities to see Monterey, Carmel, Sacramento, Big Sur, Yosemite National Park, and The Pez Museum.

And now we are here, back in Sydney, land of kangaroos and didgeridoos.    The kids, now nine and ten years old, are back at their old school, wearing those cute Aussie school uniforms and "giving it a go", reverse-adjusting back to an all-boys school, and the kids who swear like sailors.

And here I am getting back up on that writing horse after a very long hiatus, because Sydney was not supposed to happen again.  It's all very strange, but I'm sure, that I must be back in Australia because I didn't fully get, what I was supposed to get, the first time around.

And this is what we've left behind...

Upon moving to America my boys were introduced to baseball-- and became completed obsessed. This is my nine year old making the first pitch of the season.

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And my ten year old: Mr. All Baseball All the Time.

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We tried to tour the It's It ice cream sandwich factory, but ended up with no tour, and just a bunch of ginormous ice cream sandwiches; you can see the disappointment on their faces.  Not.

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Our dogs are in America with my mom until October due to changes in the Aussie quarantine laws; my nine year old refuses to look at photos of them, because it makes him cry.

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My sister and the found autograph book she had signed when we were little.

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Basketball clinic with the Harlem Globetrotters.

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Luckily, a month before our move back to Sydney, the Florida grandparents came to San Fran and we took an all-day tour to celebrate my mom's birthday and see a few Bay Area highlights.

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Makes me sad we didn't do more.  Broken record much?

Pier 39.

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Very big trees in Muir Woods with grandparents

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My husband got quality time with his dad during our time in America; it brings me tears. Literally.

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At least we made it to Ghiradelli Square with a visiting Grandma.

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And we ended our big San Fran tour at Scoma's Restaurant for my mom's birthday dinner; this is my mom and sister selfie-taking.  These are the times, and people, I will miss the most.

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Goodbye San Fran; hello Sydney.  We are back-- older, possibly wiser, and full of sourdough bread.




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5 comments:

PamelaRose said...

Best blog entry evah!Sniff. Lessons learned...make the most of the moment but still being grounded. That last selfie of my little one and me? Happiness and giggles flying right off the page. I swear!
Keep writing, daughter of mine!

Dina said...

Glad to see you're blogging again!!

I can't believe you didn't do a Florida Girl in California blog.

steck said...

I am still in San Jose, so I can you can live in California through me, vicariously.

Anonymous said...

Awesome read.... Well we came to visit you for 2 Days and made the most of it....so you may not have taken Full advantage but we did...and for that I Thank You....I'm sure I'll see you in Sydney soon

Karrine Beasley said...

The boys are so freaking big!! I can't believe it!?! Have you found a baseball team for them to play for in Sydney? I know the sport is really growing here in Australia.
Happy to have you back in our country... enjoy! :)